Ep 35. Shelby Coren vs. Tabatha Delma

Shelby Coren versus Tabatha Delma: two women in their late twenties who met in college and embarked on a romantic relationship. They fell deeply in love and made plans to build a future together. They shared everything, including finances, apartments, and even some of their closest friends. But as time went by, their love turned sour, leading them to seek the services of Divorce Court.

Shelby claims that Tabatha has always been controlling, and in the beginning, she found it somewhat attractive. However, as their relationship progressed, her controlling nature became unbearable. Tabatha allegedly controlled every aspect of Shelby's life, from what she wore to what she ate. Shelby felt like she was losing her identity and often felt suffocated in the relationship.

Tabatha, on the other hand, denies these allegations and says that she was only trying to help Shelby get her life together. She asserts that Shelby was a free spirit who did not have her priorities straight. Tabatha tried to help her by taking charge and controlling aspects of her life, which she felt were out of control. Tabatha also claims that Shelby was unfaithful throughout their relationship and that she could not trust her.

Shelby denies being unfaithful but admits that she may have acted inappropriately with other women under the influence of alcohol. She says that her behavior was a result of Tabatha's controlling nature, which led her to act out in rebellion.

The judge, Lynn Toler, examines the evidence presented by both parties and tries to help them understand each other's perspectives. She asks Shelby why she allowed herself to be controlled for so long, and Shelby admits that she was afraid of Tabatha's reaction if she stood up for herself. Judge Toler tells Shelby that she needs to learn to communicate her needs in a relationship and not let fear guide her decisions.

Tabatha also admits that she may have been too controlling but says that it was because she wanted to make Shelby a better person. Judge Toler tells Tabatha that while her intentions may have been good, her methods were not healthy for the relationship. She advises Tabatha to learn to trust her partner and allow them to grow on their own terms.

As the episode progresses, the tensions between Shelby and Tabatha escalate. They both become emotional and begin to blame each other for the breakdown of their relationship. At one point, Shelby breaks down in tears and tells Tabatha that she still loves her but cannot continue to be with her if she does not change.

In the end, Judge Toler delivers her verdict, which includes counseling for both Shelby and Tabatha. She advises them to work on their communication skills and to learn to trust each other. However, she ultimately grants a divorce to Shelby, as she believes that the relationship has become toxic and irreparable.

This emotional episode of Divorce Court highlights the importance of communication and trust in a relationship. It also shows how controlling behavior can lead to the breakdown of a seemingly loving relationship. Judge Toler provides valuable advice to both parties and helps them understand each other's perspectives, ultimately leading to a positive outcome.