Ep 8. Leftover Women

Leftover Women, the eighth episode of season 21 of Independent Lens, sheds light on three Chinese women in their late 20s and early 30s who are deemed “leftover” by their families and society for being unmarried. The documentary explores the societal pressure imposed on women to get married and have children before the age of 30 in China, where a woman’s worth is often measured by her marital status.

Qiu Hua Mei, a successful lawyer in Shanghai, is labeled a leftover woman for being single at the age of 34. She actively searches for a partner on dating apps and attends matchmaking events, but she finds it difficult to find a man who accepts her for who she is, rather than just her status and wealth. Qiu speaks about the anxiety and depression caused by the constant reminders from her parents and society that she needs to get married soon.

Chen Yan, a 28-year-old air hostess based in Beijing, faces similar pressure from her mother, who warns her that her time to find a partner is running out. Chen opens up about the unrealistic expectations and double standards placed on women in China, who are expected to be independent and financially stable, yet also subservient to their husbands.

Gai Qi, a 36-year-old radio host in Guangzhou, is the only unmarried person in her entire family. Despite her career success, she feels that her lack of a husband and child makes her incomplete and insecure. Gai reveals that she has been on more than 100 dates over the years, but none have led to a serious relationship.

The documentary also features interviews with experts and activists who have studied the phenomenon of leftover women in China. They discuss the cultural and historical roots of the term, its impact on women’s mental health, and the government’s efforts to promote marriage and combat the declining birth rate.

Leftover Women provides a powerful insight into the cultural and societal pressures suffered by women in China. It highlights the need for broader conversations around gender inequality, outdated traditions, and stereotypes. The documentary also brings to light the individual struggles of the three women, giving voice to a generation of women who are increasingly questioning the traditional expectations placed on them.