Ep 16. Ring a Ding Ding

In this episode of Sex And The City, named Ring a Ding Ding, Carrie and Aidan's relationship is tested when Carrie's former flame, Big, makes a reappearance. Carrie is left feeling confused about her feelings towards both men, as Aidan becomes increasingly jealous and insecure. Meanwhile, Miranda becomes irritated with Steve's constant need for attention, causing them to argue over the phone while she is at work. Charlotte ponders the idea of getting married again, but faces opposition from her friends and doubts about her own desire for it. Samantha struggles to maintain her celibacy vow after meeting a charming chef.

Carrie starts to feel uncomfortable around Aidan after seeing his possessive side, especially when he stops by unannounced during her workday. When she shares her concerns with Miranda, her friend suggests that Aidan may never be able to fully trust her due to her past with Big. Later, during a conversation about their relationship, Aidan tells Carrie that he always wants her to wear the ring he gave her as a symbol of their commitment. Carrie reluctantly agrees but later discovers that wearing the ring triggers her memories of Big and causes her to feel conflicted.

Miranda and Steve's relationship is on shaky ground after Miranda becomes annoyed with his frequent calls while she is at work. When Steve does not answer one of her calls, she leaves a harsh voicemail, leading to a heated argument when they eventually speak. Miranda confides in Carrie about the situation, revealing that she fears the relationship is not working out and that she may never find the right person for her.

Charlotte, on the other hand, is considering marriage again after meeting a man who she believes could be the one. While her friends are skeptical of her reasons for wanting to get married again, she decides to take the plunge and propose to her boyfriend. However, when he tells her that he is not ready for marriage, Charlotte becomes upset and feels rejected. She eventually realizes that she had only considered marrying him because she felt like she should, not because she truly wanted to.

Samantha struggles to maintain her celibacy vow after meeting a charming chef who invites her on a date. Despite her initial reluctance, she decides to go and quickly finds herself falling for the charismatic man. However, when he reveals that he too has taken a celibacy vow, Samantha becomes conflicted about whether or not she wants to continue abstaining from sex.

Overall, this episode of Sex And The City explores the complexities of relationships, commitment, and the different desires and priorities of the show's four main characters. Through their struggles, viewers are reminded of the challenges that come with finding and maintaining love and the importance of staying true to oneself.