Designing Women Season 7 Episode 11 Too Dumb to Date
- TVPG
- January 8, 1993
- 22 min
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6.6 (61)
This episode of Designing Women follows the staff of Sugarbakers & Associates as they tackle the difficult task of designing a funeral home. While brainstorming ideas, the topic of intelligence and dating arises and the women have differing opinions on whether being smart is a curse or a blessing in the dating world.
The main plot revolves around the character of Bernice Clifton, an overweight and over-eager woman who has been friends with Mary Jo for years. When Bernice asks Mary Jo for help in finding a man, Mary Jo attempts to set her up with a man named Alvin, whom Bernice is smitten with from the outset.
However, as Alvin begins to show his true colors as a misogynistic and condescending man, the women begin to question whether intelligence is actually a hindrance in the dating world. As Mary Jo puts it, “Are we doomed to be Miss Lonelyhearts because we read books and carry on a conversation?”
Throughout the episode, the women debate the merits of being smart and successful in a man's world. Julia argues that a woman should never dumb herself down to appease a man, while Suzanne insists that women sometimes have to play the game if they want to find love.
The episode also explores the idea of self-worth and accepting oneself for who they are. When Bernice struggles with her weight and her self-image, Mary Jo reminds her that she is a valuable and lovable person regardless of her physical appearance.
Meanwhile, Anthony and Etienne try to impress Mary Jo by cooking her a fancy French meal, but their efforts are ultimately thwarted by a clumsy mishap in the kitchen.
As the episode draws to a close, the women come to the conclusion that being intelligent and successful is not a curse, but a gift that should be celebrated. They agree that they would rather be smart and single than dumb and in a bad relationship.
Overall, “Too Dumb to Date” is a thought-provoking and witty episode that explores the complexities of dating and the role of intelligence in modern relationships. With its strong cast of female characters and intelligent writing, Designing Women continues to be a beloved classic television show.