Dr. Phil Show Season 15 Episode 132 I Am Convinced My Husband Is Gaslighting Me
- April 14, 2017
In the 132nd episode of season 15 of the Dr. Phil Show, titled "I Am Convinced My Husband Is Gaslighting Me," Dr. Phil welcomes a woman named Miranda, who believes that her husband, Tyler, is manipulating and controlling her through gaslighting.
Miranda shares her story with Dr. Phil, explaining how Tyler is constantly making her doubt her memory and perception of events. She describes instances where Tyler will deny saying something she remembers him saying, or insist that she's overreacting to his behavior. Miranda says that these experiences have left her feeling confused, anxious, and constantly second-guessing herself.
Dr. Phil explains to Miranda that gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse, and that it's important to take her concerns seriously. He encourages her to speak with a therapist and consider her options for protecting herself if the behavior continues.
Next, Dr. Phil speaks with Tyler, who denies gaslighting Miranda. He explains that he sometimes forgets things or changes his mind about plans, and that Miranda is simply misinterpreting his behavior. Tyler seems defensive and unwilling to consider Miranda's perspective, leading Dr. Phil to question whether he's willing to change his behavior.
Throughout the episode, Dr. Phil offers insights into the dynamics of gaslighting and emotional abuse, and encourages Miranda to advocate for herself and make decisions that prioritize her safety and well-being. He emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries with an abusive partner and seeking support from trusted friends and family members.
As the episode progresses, tensions rise between Miranda and Tyler, with both becoming increasingly frustrated and talking over each other. However, Dr. Phil remains calm and evenhanded, working to facilitate a dialogue that helps both Miranda and Tyler better understand each other's perspectives and experiences.
Ultimately, the episode ends with Dr. Phil offering resources and support to Miranda as she moves forward. He reminds her that she deserves to be treated with respect and compassion, and encourages her to prioritize her own needs and safety as she navigates her relationship with Tyler.