Ep 22. Be Nice

In season 3 episode 22 of Everybody Loves Raymond, titled "Be Nice," the Barones are facing a dilemma when they realize one of their neighbors is going through a hard time. As usual, this leads to tension between Ray and Debra, who have different ideas about how to help.

The episode begins with the Barones enjoying their Sunday morning routine of reading the newspaper while eating breakfast. Ray is shocked to read that a neighbor, Mr. Zwick, lost his job and is struggling to pay his bills. Ray suggests they do something to help out but Debra objects, feeling that they should respect their neighbor's privacy.

Later that day, Ray and Robert attend a baseball game where they chat with some of their friends who also live in the neighborhood. Ray learns that everyone knows about Mr. Zwick's situation and is surprised that Debra hasn't heard about it. When Debra finds out, she is upset with Ray for not telling her earlier and accuses him of trying to be a hero.

The next day, Debra decides to bake a cake for the Zwick family and bring it over as a way to show support. But when Ray finds out, he thinks it's a bad idea and argues that it will embarrass the Zwick family. He suggests they give them money instead, but Debra insists on the cake.

The tension between Ray and Debra reaches a boiling point when they go to Mr. Zwick's house and argue in front of him and his wife. Mr. Zwick is uncomfortable with their fighting and suggests they leave.

Feeling guilty, Ray decides to make it up to Debra by buying her an expensive gift. When Debra finds out, she thinks it's a way for Ray to avoid dealing with their problems and the underlying issue of how they can help their neighbor.

In the end, Ray and Debra agree to put their differences aside and do what they think is best for Mr. Zwick. They decide to anonymously pay one of his bills, which brings them closer together as a couple.

Overall, "Be Nice" is a heartwarming episode that explores the complexities of helping others and the importance of communication in relationships. The dynamic between Ray and Debra is as entertaining as ever, and the guest appearances by their neighbors add depth and humor to the story. Ultimately, the episode demonstrates the value of being kind and compassionate, even when it's not easy.