Ep 17. Strangled By Love: Demetrius & Raanne
- June 22, 2019
In this episode of Iyanla, Fix My Life, Demetrius and Raanne are a couple whose relationship is on the verge of collapse. Demetrius is a struggling artist who is unable to provide financially, which has put a strain on their relationship. Raanne is a successful businesswoman who feels unsupported by Demetrius and is at a crossroads about whether to continue the relationship.
Iyanla works with the couple to help them see their individual roles in the dysfunction of the relationship. She delves into their pasts to uncover the deep-seated beliefs and patterns that have contributed to their current situation.
Demetrius reveals that he grew up in a home without his father and was raised by a mother who struggled with addiction. He learned to survive by keeping his feelings to himself and avoiding conflict. Raanne shares that she was also raised by a single mother and was taught to be self-sufficient and independent.
Iyanla helps Demetrius see how his upbringing has affected his ability to be a supportive partner. She challenges him to express his feelings and communicate with Raanne in a more empathetic way. Raanne, in turn, learns to see how her need for control has contributed to the relationship's problems and learns to let go.
Throughout the episode, Iyanla works with the couple to help them see how their struggles with love and intimacy are linked to their pasts. She encourages them to break free from their old beliefs and patterns and create new ways of being in their relationship.
In the end, Demetrius and Raanne have a newfound appreciation for each other and a renewed commitment to their relationship. They both feel empowered to take the necessary steps to create a healthier, more loving partnership.
Iyanla, Fix My Life season 9 episode 17 offers a powerful look into the challenges faced by couples struggling with financial and emotional intimacy. Through Iyanla's guidance, Demetrius and Raanne are able to confront their pasts and create a brighter future together.
